English Subtitles for Respect of my Father - MGTOW

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<font color="#E5E5E5">hi everyone</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Sandman here today's video</font>

is brought to you by donation by someone named rescue her<font color="#E5E5E5"> and hopefully</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> i'm</font> pronouncing<font color="#E5E5E5"> that properly and here's</font> what he has to say<font color="#CCCCCC"> i want to begin by</font> saying that this is hard to type out and that the phrase<font color="#CCCCCC"> in quotations brings up</font>

so many emotions<font color="#E5E5E5"> that this</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> 6-foot tall</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">280-pound</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> man cried out loud</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> a loan of</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">course and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> i have been watching</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> all your</font> videos on and off all day<font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> would</font> discuss topics with myself and counter-arguments<font color="#CCCCCC"> elf is what</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> i do and i</font>

can't remember what<font color="#CCCCCC"> i was talking about</font> when i said the words I want my father's respect even when typing<font color="#E5E5E5"> it in this</font> moment brought me to tears <font color="#CCCCCC">I just know</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> that they were heavy and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font> couldn't<font color="#E5E5E5"> bear</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> it I gave in and cried and</font>

the feeling was so heavy<font color="#CCCCCC"> i threw my</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> face</font> over my hands and<font color="#E5E5E5"> I feel relief</font> identifying this longing which I don't want to call a burden<font color="#E5E5E5"> because</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> i'm proud</font> to be his son<font color="#E5E5E5"> i had no idea how</font> important<font color="#CCCCCC"> it was to me</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and even more so</font>

now that<font color="#CCCCCC"> i am aware i don't know how if</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">I even need to talk to my father about</font> all of this<font color="#CCCCCC"> i don't want to feel as</font> though he's failed me by failing to find a companion<font color="#E5E5E5"> but after watching so many</font> of your videos<font color="#CCCCCC"> I got to thinking that</font>

I'm probably not alone in this feeling as well<font color="#CCCCCC"> I'm all</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> cried out now and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I want</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">to thank you again for bringing</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> makes</font> out to<font color="#E5E5E5"> my attention</font> it has helped me to realize what I've been feeling now for a while<font color="#E5E5E5"> and now</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font>

can actually do something about it because<font color="#CCCCCC"> I don't feel alone</font> thank you so much well thanks for your questions rescue her <font color="#E5E5E5">I'm sorry that you're emotionally upset</font> enough to cry about wanting your

father's respect and I don't think you're the only person that feels this way you see the world is a lot tougher place emotionally and physically<font color="#CCCCCC"> than it</font> was only a decade or two ago and<font color="#E5E5E5"> fathers</font> these they see their grown kids as

failures<font color="#E5E5E5"> because they appear to have</font> trouble navigating the world all around them in the past<font color="#CCCCCC"> is</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> often easier</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> for men</font> to get jobs<font color="#CCCCCC"> save money</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> raised a family</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">and do all the things that we associate</font> with the<font color="#E5E5E5"> American</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Dream</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and after about</font>

<font color="#E5E5E5">five to</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> ten generations of technological</font> social and financial progress<font color="#E5E5E5"> the</font> millennial generation of men in their prime today is falling backwards with regards to social and financial progress <font color="#E5E5E5">and I think the reason many of us are</font>

obsessed with computers phones and other technologies is because<font color="#E5E5E5"> they're the only</font> types of things moving forward<font color="#CCCCCC"> are</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">progressing rapidly in our lives</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">the lack of progress from adult children</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">means that father's probably respect</font>

<font color="#CCCCCC">their grown male children less than they</font> did in past generations<font color="#CCCCCC"> men after all</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">are graded and judge based on what they</font> do instead of who they are on the inside <font color="#E5E5E5">to be successful in today's world</font> requires a combination of<font color="#E5E5E5"> hard work luck</font>

with regards to being in the right place at the right time and constantly reinventing and retooling oneself <font color="#CCCCCC">especially if you work in a field</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> that's</font> technologically driven<font color="#E5E5E5"> and then also</font> need to be highly social and navigate a

world that's increasingly female<font color="#CCCCCC"> we</font> increasingly have to be sensitive to women's opinions as well as criticisms <font color="#CCCCCC">father's these days don't seem to</font> understand that the world has changed they also don't understand that the

quality of women has gone down with regards to social behavior that is available for their sons to date and most<font color="#CCCCCC"> fathers lose respect their grown</font> male children if they<font color="#E5E5E5"> are in a</font> relationship<font color="#CCCCCC"> either</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> so as men we have to</font>

pick and choose our battles and focus our efforts on one thing<font color="#E5E5E5"> while</font> neglecting another<font color="#CCCCCC"> I know that when I</font> was younger<font color="#CCCCCC"> I focused on financial</font> success and<font color="#E5E5E5"> ignored my mental health</font> this gave me the respect of my father

<font color="#E5E5E5">but later on when not paying attention</font> to my emotional needs they came to the surface and<font color="#CCCCCC"> I couldn't</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">succeed in the way that</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> i once did</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">thus it cost me the respect for my</font> father as well as trust<font color="#CCCCCC"> he saw me as</font>

less<font color="#E5E5E5"> of a man and he started respecting</font> my brother more<font color="#E5E5E5"> but now my brother is</font> having a slow burn out from work<font color="#CCCCCC"> they</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">need psychological help</font> none of this is either my fault his<font color="#CCCCCC"> it's</font> actually the fault of a society that

<font color="#E5E5E5">forces many men to choose between the</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">respective their fathers and their peers</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">but</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> they have to sacrifice their own</font> mental and emotional health to get it past generations of men<font color="#CCCCCC"> could have it</font> all<font color="#E5E5E5"> but today that's completely changed</font>

with myself I don't really care if I have my father's respect at this point it would be nice but it's not going to change my life<font color="#CCCCCC"> I have</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> self-respect and</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">I'm satisfied</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> about my successes and see</font> my failures as learning experiences<font color="#E5E5E5"> and</font>

<font color="#CCCCCC">I also understand now that</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> I can't sit</font> and do nothing with my time<font color="#E5E5E5"> in coast on</font> my former successes maybe<font color="#CCCCCC"> someday</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> my father will respect me</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">but his vision is clouded by my past</font> failures<font color="#E5E5E5"> and he believes that any</font>

success that<font color="#CCCCCC"> I will</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> have in the future</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">will only be a temporary one</font> so<font color="#E5E5E5"> he doesn't take me seriously anymore</font> and<font color="#E5E5E5"> I'm not the only guy that feels like</font> this<font color="#CCCCCC"> i have friends that have saved</font> small fortunes and have been successful

at their jobs and business is<font color="#CCCCCC"> yet their</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> fathers look down on them</font> for not settling down with some woman <font color="#E5E5E5">that would make them completely unhappy</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">many men from this generation feel like</font> complete failures when compared to the

men their<font color="#CCCCCC"> fathers from the past all the</font> negative feelings are coming to the <font color="#CCCCCC">foreground</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> now</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> why do you think that</font> makes<font color="#E5E5E5"> how even exists</font> it's not just women that men are going their own way from<font color="#E5E5E5"> but the entire social</font>

institutions that are no longer serving us<font color="#E5E5E5"> many of us</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> can't succeed in a</font> conventional way<font color="#E5E5E5"> so men are going their</font> own way from the established cultural and social norms<font color="#CCCCCC"> many of</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> us feel that</font> the effort of finding a<font color="#E5E5E5"> high-paying job</font>

career and saving money for a down payment on a property will only make us wage slaves<font color="#E5E5E5"> back in the nineteen</font> seventies and eighties<font color="#CCCCCC"> real</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> estate</font> prices went up and inflation paid off the homes that are<font color="#CCCCCC"> fathers ended up</font>

buying<font color="#E5E5E5"> today however we have price</font> inflation<font color="#E5E5E5"> get salaries aren't rising to</font> keep up the pace<font color="#E5E5E5"> if we play the</font> conventional protect your provider role in society<font color="#CCCCCC"> as men</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> that were almost</font> guaranteed to lose<font color="#E5E5E5"> and our fathers don't</font>

see this in all their mentality still often stuck in the 20th century and even when we succeed in unconventional ways like using computers and<font color="#E5E5E5"> technology our</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">Father still won't be able to respect us</font> because they don't really understand

what we're doing <font color="#CCCCCC">they can only respect</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> what they</font> understand<font color="#CCCCCC"> that's the funny thing about</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">fathers</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> even if you're successful on</font> your own terms<font color="#CCCCCC"> they</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> oftentimes don't see</font> you as successful<font color="#CCCCCC"> whereas most women</font>

don't seem to care how you succeed<font color="#CCCCCC"> so</font> long as you pull in the money as well as the resources<font color="#CCCCCC"> it's</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> not so much about</font> what you do to succeed<font color="#E5E5E5"> but instead it's</font> about the outcome<font color="#E5E5E5"> over the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> last century</font> men have gone from being farmers to

factory workers to corporate drones and now their sons are working as baristas at<font color="#E5E5E5"> starbucks prior generations would</font> have been fairly isolated from each other because each generation appears <font color="#CCCCCC">that</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> have done jobs that were completely</font>

different so<font color="#CCCCCC"> I wonder if that means sons</font> and fathers have been alienated from one another for almost a century now as a man when your son falls in your footsteps and succeeds<font color="#CCCCCC"> that it often</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">makes your life worthwhile you feel like</font>

your purpose in life will continue to live on<font color="#CCCCCC"> much like</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> the DNA found in your</font> child<font color="#E5E5E5"> today</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> a man is extremely lucky to</font> choose the right career at the right time<font color="#E5E5E5"> and if he gets</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> mary</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> has to have</font> even greater luck finding a woman

the odds are stacked against them in both cases in the past<font color="#E5E5E5"> he knew that you</font> would have a marriage and a<font color="#E5E5E5"> job</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">her life companies produce the same</font> types of products<font color="#CCCCCC"> for years</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> or decades</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">and there wasn't any no-fault divorce to</font>

<font color="#E5E5E5">take</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> away his marriage</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> &</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Sons</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> would</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">oftentimes follow their father's</font> footsteps<font color="#CCCCCC"> with regards to career paths a</font> man had the respect of his employer and his father and he was sure that his family wasn't going anywhere

life is far more stable than it is today <font color="#CCCCCC">today</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> meant switch jobs every few years</font> and many<font color="#E5E5E5"> switch</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> their relationships even</font> more frequently nothing is stable and everything can be taken away at a moment's notice

so<font color="#CCCCCC"> many live</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> in fear which is the most</font> important reason<font color="#E5E5E5"> men are leaving the</font> corporate marriage plantation<font color="#E5E5E5"> because</font> your life can go from lucky to the worst disaster of your lifetime almost overnight<font color="#E5E5E5"> and oftentimes</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> you as a</font>

man<font color="#E5E5E5"> don't have a say over any of it</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> and</font> the worst part is it can actually cause your father to lose respect for you as a man<font color="#E5E5E5"> because you have nothing to show for</font> your life<font color="#CCCCCC"> that's a scary proposition for</font> a man and all those men committing

suicide after losing everything<font color="#CCCCCC"> are</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">doing in part because suicide might</font> actually be the only choice of <font color="#CCCCCC">Manhattan's in his life where he has</font> some level of control today<font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was</font> watching a news story about an airplane

to crash in southern<font color="#CCCCCC"> France</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and it</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">appears that one of the pilots might</font> have actually committed suicide and killed 150 people in the process<font color="#E5E5E5"> the</font> same probably<font color="#CCCCCC"> happen</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> on the Malaysian</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">Airlines flight 370 last year</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I used to</font>

remember the days when someone was negligent on aircraft maintenance and that was usually the cause of a plane crash<font color="#E5E5E5"> but now planes are being crashed</font> intentionally by their pilots and over the years male suicide hasn't been on

anyone's radar<font color="#CCCCCC"> no pun intended but maybe</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">is more men</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> kill</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> themselves and take</font> down a bunch of women and children with them in airplanes<font color="#E5E5E5"> society might actually</font> start seeing mens issues completely differently<font color="#CCCCCC"> the</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> problem male suicide is</font>

now front-page news in the Germanwings airplane crash which<font color="#E5E5E5"> I just mentioned</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">one of the pilots went to the bathroom</font> and the other pilot appears to have <font color="#E5E5E5">locked them out after hearing this</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font> think<font color="#E5E5E5"> it's most likely a suicide</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> and</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> if</font>

it's true<font color="#CCCCCC"> then more planes probably</font> crash thanks to suicide pilot since<font color="#CCCCCC"> 911</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">then by actual terrorists in the bolted</font> door is designed to protect the cockpit are now turning into suicide doors for male pilots<font color="#E5E5E5"> looking to kill themselves</font>

<font color="#E5E5E5">and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> i'm sure a man doing this will never</font> actually get the respect of his father what does everyone else think of the suicide pilots <font color="#E5E5E5">if men kill themselves and kill innocent</font> civilians would eventually get society

to see<font color="#CCCCCC"> male problems in a completely</font> different light I'm going to work on a video covering the subject in the future<font color="#E5E5E5"> because if</font> anything can possibly solve the problem <font color="#CCCCCC">male suicides it can</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> only happen if</font>

women are heard by it in some way anyways<font color="#E5E5E5"> rescue her</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> i ended up watching</font> my video called the red pill honey trap which basically got you to cry and<font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font> have no idea why<font color="#CCCCCC"> this happened</font> maybe you felt great pain because your

life doesn't appear to be turning out the way that you expect<font color="#E5E5E5"> it all along</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">you're actually mourning the loss of</font> some man that society wanted you to become<font color="#CCCCCC"> could</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> that be it</font> hopefully you can give us an insightful

reason for your emotional state<font color="#E5E5E5"> because</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">I sure can't</font> but don't despair feel like<font color="#CCCCCC"> you missed</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">out on something because most men are</font> getting respect from their fathers these days either<font color="#E5E5E5"> so take how you feel with a</font>

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Video Description

Thanks for your questions Rskuhure. I'm sorry that your emotionally upset enough to cry about wanting your father's respect. And I don't think you're the only person that feels this way. The world is a lot tougher place emotionally and physically then it was only a decade or two ago. And fathers these days see their grown kids as failures because they appear to have trouble navigating the world around. In the past it was easier for men to get jobs, save money, raise a families and do all the things we associate with the American dream. And after about five to ten generations of technological, social and financial progress, the millennial generation of men in their prime today is falling backwards with regards to social and financial progress. And I think the reason many of us are obsessed with computer, phone and other technology today is because it's the only thing moving forward or progressing rapidly in our lives. But the lack of progress from adult children means that fathers probably respect their grown male children less then they did in past generations. Men after-all are graded and judged based on what they do instead of who we are on the inside. To be successful in today's world requires a combination of hard work, luck with regards to being in the right place at the right time and constantly re-inventing and retooling yourself. Especially if you work in a field that's technologically driven. And men also need to be highly social and navigate a world that's increasingly female. We have to be sensitive to women's opinions and criticisms. Fathers these days don't seem to understand that the world has changed. They don't understand that the quality of women, with regards to social behavior that are available for dating. And most fathers lose respect for their grown male children if they aren't in relationships either. So as men we have to pick and choose our battles and focus our effort on one thing while neglecting another. I know that when I was younger I focused on financial success and ignored my mental health. This gained me the respect of my father but later one when not paying attention to my emotional needs came to the surface I couldn't succeed in the way I once did and this cost me respect and trust from my father. He saw me as less. And he started respecting my brother more.